One more thought, perhaps more pertinent to the specifics of your quandary... I think that life is a dance and that there is nothing which is constant except the attempt to be inspired by the music and to inspire and simultaneously respond to your partner, who hears the music differently than you do and who has different referents and dreams. Trust, like all other things, is relative and is fluid.

We are about to go through a severe upheaval of all we've inagined to be solid in our silly little minds. I think that keeping an open mind and being fastidiously honest will probably be helpful tools. (But then, I'm often wrong which is why it's helpful to be open minded and honest.)

- NonE