Nice Guy Nation

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The idea of freedom presented in the film 300 ( which is based on Frank Miller's excellent graphic novel of the same name) is a modern concept that had no real basis in the ancient world. Sparta was a police state that was kept strong through the practice of eugenics and the complete suppression of the individual in the service of the state.

Still, the movie as such is inspiring, especially to men, as it presents a powerful picture of what true masculinity can and should be: men who are not afraid to be masculine,in the service of freedom.

Masculinity is under attack in our culture, and we live in a Nice Guy Nation. Everywhere you look, men are portrayed as confused, inept bunglers who fearfully look to their wives for guidance and leadership in a world that is incomprehensible to them. One commerical for Hot Pockets (which are junk food anyway and should best be avoided) shows a husband sitting around the table with his friends whom he's invited over for a card game, no doubt having first gotten the permission of his wife. But the poor man has obviously been naughty by nuking a box of Hot Pockets for himself and his friends without first alerting his wife. When she storms into the room demanding "Where are the Hot Pockets!!?", he gets the scared look on his face of a kid who has been caught with his hand in the cookie jar and then looks at the food as if it were an artifact of alien technology from a civilization advanced beyond our ability to comprehend. "Hot Pockets???"

The commercial manages to make an entire group of men look guilty, inept, confused and fearfully submissive to women in under thirty seconds. Quite a feat, that.

Then there's the commercial for Brinks Security that shows a man cowering in fear in the bathroom as a burglar tries to enter the house, while his wife and two small daughters take charge and bravely go to the phone to call Brinks. When the burglar is run off, the the two daughters comfort their father and reassure him that everything is okay.

The sad thing is that due to decades of this and other kinds of social conditioning, many men actually do live in fear of their wives, girlfriends and women in general. Countless single men are fearful of approaching women and present themselves as asexual Nice Guys when they do approach them. Then they complain about the fact that women "just want to be friends" with them.

The government fears a nation of strong, free-thinking masculine men; liberty is not a characteristic of a Nice Guy Nation; how will men who live in fear of their own wives stand against the oppression of the state?

The conservative movement itself is a mechanism of the state which keeps men who might otherwise be strong, dominant lovers of liberty squarely in the camp of the Nice Guy. Metrosexuality is just a step beyond the sort of tepid Nice-Guyism promoted by conservatives, and disgust with liberal metrosexuals does not itself a real man make. Our political system and electoral politics are little more than Nice Guy mechanisms that keep men subdued and subservient, while promoting little illusons of power and change to mask the true power structure.

Societal conditioning to the contrary, women crave strong assertive men.

And Liberty demands them.

300 as true masculinity

I have deliberately avoided 300 because the reviews I've read seem to indicate the point of the movie is how noble it is to die for an oppressive government that pretends you're free. While I agree we need to be "strong, free-thinking, masculine men," nothing I have heard about 300 indicates that it encourages free thinking. Most of what I've heard talks about "the complete suppression of the individual in the service of freedom," which doesn't sound particularly free, so I was surprised to see you start there and then move toward applauding the idea.

"People should not be afraid of their governments. Governments should be afraid of their people."

Miss Interpretation?

Hi, B.W.! My take on what The Shadow wrote is not that he’s unreservedly applauding the depiction of masculinity in 300. Rather, my interpretation is that a masculine man groks and deeply values genuine freedom.

Re: Miss Interpretation

Precisely, Sunni. My take is that the film (as well as Miller's graphic novel) forsakes historical accuracy for the sake of making exactly that point. Braveheart and Gladiator did exactly the same thing, and I found those films inspiring as well.

Nice Guy Nation

Did your read my opening paragraphs? I mentioned the differences between historical Sparta and the anachronistic idea of freedom put forth (albeit inconsistently)"by the movie as such" precisely to head off just such a discussion. Perhaps I should have been clearer.

As I tried to point out, historical Sparta was an extreme example of a police state and the Greeks in general had no concept of the worth of the individual apart from the state. The movie touches on this, but then largely attempts to overlay the modern ideal of freedom over the facts of history (in exactly the same way as was done in movies such as Braveheart and Gladiator, and for the same reason).

Is the movie artistically imperfect, a bit confused and historically inaccurate? Certainly. Is V for Vendetta a better movie that more accurately depicts what you and I believe about freedom? Most definitely. I don't know what the critics have said about the film because I haven't read any of them, but anyone who views the film and knows anything at all about ancient Greece must surely recognize that the view of freedom set forth in the movie is historically inaccurate and anachronistic. It is to the degree that the movie puts forth this inaccuracy that it is inspiring in the measure which I've discussed, and anyone who can concede that the movie is historically inaccurate on that point should have no issue with what I've written (at least upon the suppression of individuality for the sake of the state).

I suggest you see the film for yourself. You still may not agree with my take on it, but you'll certainly see why my little piece here need not be based upon statist premises, as you have implied.

It's probably not a great

It's probably not a great idea to react to something I haven't seen, and for that I apologize. I'm just having a hard time separating the concept of the masculine individual from what sounds like a celebration of the underdog military state against the barbarian hordes. But I can understand how, within the confines of a historically incorrect and potentially propagandistic story, some nuggets of positive truth might be found, and you've found them. I guess I'd just be happier if the story was about 300 actually free men defending their way of life instead of 300 Spartans under the illusion they are free.

"People should not be afraid of their governments. Governments should be afraid of their people."

Interesting

I haven’t seen the movie yet ... actually, dunno that I will; just doesn’t seem my cuppa. And it’s sad, but not in the least surprising, that commercials have emasculated men even further than those I remember from before we threw out the teevee.

I really like your vision of “true masculinity” – I don’t know if you’ve seen it before but I think what you’re saying dovetails nicely with this snaky ramble.

Re: Interesting

Thanks for the link; I hadn't seen it. Your comments are dead-on, and they do in fact dovetail nicely into the point I was trying to make, as well as some things I intend to post here in the future.

I did see it, and I agree

I did see it, and I agree historical accuracy went out the window.

The Spartans were overdressed for one thing...

To me, the amazing thing is not the film but the reaction to the film.

There are hard left folks who see the picture as little more than an attempt to glamorize Bush and his War on Terror and actually seem threatened by the very notion of violence.

Then there are those who are quite taken with the idea of an assertive, masculine man who is willing to fight for what he loves. They don't really see the film as political at all.

That certainly ties in with what you are saying.

Over at libertas (conservative film blog, http://www.libertyfilmfestival.com/libertas/) a few months ago they talked about how today's leading men don't make nearly the impact as their predecessors did. Despite the attitudes carried by some older films, there is no doubt that those men had character and presense that most of the current crop lacks.

Compare the late Jimmy Stewart with his nearest contemporary equivalent, Tom Hanks. Both get the same type of "everyman"roles, but compared to Jimmy, Tom comes across as forced. He's in character, but it never seems to ring true. More importantly, there is no doubting Jimmy Stewart's masculinity, but you get the vague feeling that if the wind blows hard enough Tom's will vanish.

It has nothing to do with sexuality, Raymond Burr and Rock Hudson were about as masculine as they come. It has everything to do with presence and how one faces the world.

Stewart vs. Hanks?

Are there film buffs who seriously assert Tom Hanks is a modern equivalent of Jimmy Stewart? If so, the mind boggles. Hanks has turned in some decent portrayals in my opinion, but he doesn't come close to Jimmy Stewart.

Yep, me among them.Not in

Yep, me among them.

Not in terms of acting ability but in terms of the roles they choose to play.

Just as one example, if _Mr._Smith_Goes_To_Washington_ were to be filmed today (not as a remake, but as an actual never-seen-before original), I could see Hanks taking the role and sort of making it work. I can't think of too many other current actors who could pull off the part.

Jimmy still had way more acting chops than Tom could ever hope for.

Getting back to the topic, THAT role is classic old-school male assertiveness for you. And not a single Rambo-type explosion or flying drop kick or justified execution to be seen.

There is a car chase though. And some implied gore.

Okay, I can see that.

I can agree with that in the context of roles. I was thinking in terms of acting ability – hence my surprised response. I don’t believe I’ve ever seen Mr. Smith Goes to Washington.

Liberty demands a respect for rights

I haven't seen the movie, but my daughter has. "One of the stupidest movies. My friend and I laughed out loud many times at the idiocies. Bad dialog, bad CGI blood. Very pro-war and anti-Iran."

I do not doubt that masculinity is under attack in the US, even though I have not seen any of the examples mentioned. However the statement:

"Societal conditioning to the contrary, women crave strong assertive men.

And Liberty demands them."

Is something I must disagree with. Undoubtedly some women crave strong assertive men. Others crave gentle caring women. Others prefer to be celibate and crave no one. Others, well you get the idea. To imply that all women want one specific thing is just silly.

That liberty demands strong assertive men is simply false. Strong assertive men such as former Presidents Clinton, Regan, Nixon, Johnson, Kennedy, Truman, Roosevelt, Wilson, etc were the worst thing that happened to Liberty in the US. Even stronger, more assertive, men such as Hitler, Mao and Stalin were complete unmitigated horrors as far as Liberty is concerned.

Liberty demands a respect for rights. Period. It demands nothing else. Anyone who says it does does not understand liberty and is confusing it with their own personal desires.

Re:

Let's transpose your logic into another case and see if it holds:


The claim that the sick can benefit from a knowledgable doctor is simply false. Knowledgable doctors such as Joseph Mengele and Jack Kevorkian were complete unmitigated horrors as far as health is concerned.


How exactly did we gain what liberty we have in the US, pray tell? Strong assertive men took it for themselves; "Give me liberty or give me death" asserted aggressive old Patrick Henry.


What are men to do when their rights are not respected? By what means shall they gain such respect?


And your daughter considered the movie to be "anti-Iran" because the Greeks fought against the Persian Empire? I suppose the movie could have had the Spartans fighting the Nazis or some other group of politically-correct or fictional baddies, but that would have been quite a departure from the historical Battle of Thermopylae...

Well ...

"I suppose the movie could have had the Spartans fighting the Nazis or some other group of politically-correct or fictional baddies, but that would have been quite a departure from the historical Battle of Thermopylae..."

Well, as long as they've already departed from historical Sparta ...

I guess Jorge is onto where I was trying to go. Because I aim to model the masculinity of guys like Gandhi and Thoreau, am I not a manly man? Is Patrick Henry's manliness really analogous to the kind of manhood depicted in 300? And, off the point but an important tangent, why pick this moment in history to release a movie about battling Persia/Iran?

"What makes a real man" is an important subject worth discussing; I'm just not sure this film is a very good launchpad for that discussion.

"People should not be afraid of their governments. Governments should be afraid of their people."

Re:

Frank Miller's Sin City was released about two and a half years ago and was a smash hit. It's taken him that long to produce and release the next movie based on his work which happened to be the graphic novel 300--which he did long before the present situation in the Middle East.

Gandhi's methods worked against the British at that point in time because England had developed something of a conscience and respect for the rights of India. If he'd used against those same methods against--say--Joseph Stalin, the results would have been quite different.

I'm not so sure the point of my piece is considered an important subject worth discussing around here, since most seem to be more interested in challenging my interpretation of the film.

Conversational drift happens ...

And it seems to happen fairly frequently ’round here. Given the overall contentiousness surrounding that film, it shouldn’t come as a surprise to find it seeping in here as well.

More to the point, I wonder if there’s some kind of semantic disconnect going on here. The Shadow wrote, “Liberty demands them [strong assertive men]”, and Jorge appears to object to that assertion. But it seems to me that if liberty is to survive, it does require individuals willing to stand up to encroachments upon their liberty. How else to defend it?

We can debate and discuss and dissect methodology to our heart’s content – and I would enjoy a civilized consideration of the generalizability of Gandhi’s methods, as a topic distinct from this one – but those are sidetracks. Is there anyone reading this who wouldn’t consider Gandhi a strong or assertive man in at least a few respects? He stood up to the sizable British military presence in India without guns of his own! That takes serious cojones, does it not?

There is more to strength than might. There is more to assertiveness than being overbearing.

Anti-Iran / The demands of liberty / "real man"

My daughter considered the film anti-Iranian because of the way the Persians were portrayed. Not because the Spartans were fighting Persians.

The point on doctors is a good one. It renders meaningless the contention that Liberty requires strong assertive men. Everything requires strong assertive men. Liberty, The Nazis, The Chinese Communist Party, The Spanish Inquisition, The Spanish conquest of the Americas, The invention of the light bulb, starting a business, etc. Since any human endeavor requires at least one strong willed human (I am not willing to limit it to males), it is simply a tautology to say that Liberty requires it. But I grant that it does.

Strong assertive men with no concept of rights do not contribute to Liberty. And very possibly weak timid individuals who write well and understand human rights contribute even more than the strong assertive type who blindly charges the cannon. History leaves out the stories of all the nobodies who contributed to the cause. Without them, just like without the strong willed leaders, no human endeavor would come to pass. For good or ill.

Liberty requires a mass acceptance of the concept of human rights. Once once that occurs there will be those, strong and assertive along with the weak and timid, who will act to make the most of it. The mostly nameless ones who spread the ideas of The Enlightenment were far more responsible for the American Revolution than Washington or Jefferson. As John Adams put it, the Revolution occurred between 1750 and 1775, in the hearts and minds of the American people. The war was just the final chapter.

I think the answer to "what makes a real man?" is very simple. A Y chromosome. Human beings come in a huge variety. Each one just as real as the other. I am very leery of this type of discussion. If someone is not a "real" man, what are they? A woman? Sorry, down that road is bigotry and intolerance. Not a place I care to go.

BTW, I do realize that "A Y chromosome" is too simple an answer since there are individuals who consider themselves women with Y chromosomes.

THANK YOU!

What Jorge said.

Thank you all!

I'm a little sorry I sidetracked the discussion and may have chased The Shadow away from his own thread, but this has been interesting.

We seem to be in general agreement that strong wills are needed to preserve/restore liberty, and the discussion over "what is strength" is valuable. Shadow makes some great observations, which should not be lost, about how The Powers That Be appreciate it when we don't exercise our strength. We need to be ever vigilant that we haven't let our wills deteriorate into a passive acceptance of tyranny at any level.

"People should not be afraid of their governments. Governments should be afraid of their people."

Conflation conundrum?

Since any human endeavor requires at least one strong willed human ... it is simply a tautology to say that Liberty requires it. But I grant that it does.

I suppose it depends upon what one means by the word “endeavor”, but I can think of several activities that do not require a strong-willed individual. Remaining oblivious to toxic elements of one’s society for oneself as well as any children one has ... continuing to serve The Massa-State by absorbing opinions from USSA Today and regurgitating them in conversation and the voting booth ... in this country, sadly, strong-willed humans above toddler age are vanishing, except perhaps in pockets where self-reliance and integrity are still valued, or where an individual chooses to swim against the conforming current surrounding him- or herself.

Strong assertive men with no concept of rights do not contribute to Liberty. And very possibly weak timid individuals who write well and understand human rights contribute even more than the strong assertive type who blindly charges the cannon. History leaves out the stories of all the nobodies who contributed to the cause. Without them, just like without the strong willed leaders, no human endeavor would come to pass. For good or ill.

You are of course correct in the first sentence quoted here. With your second assertion, though, it seems to me that we’re back to the point I attempted to address yesterday, that being that strength is not just might. Nor is strength necessarily mindless. In times such as ours, an individual does need some strength of character to write perspectives that oppose the regime – even more to distribute them. Leaders are perhaps the most easily recognized of strong-willed individuals, but I would say that all who choose to contribute to a minority movement are strong in ways that those in the complacent majority (such as the one I described above) will never be, as long as they remain complacent, unprincipled, and unthinking. And much of history is little more than glorified gossip, allowing us to tell who got the most press (very loosely defined) way back when.

I don’t think The Shadow was trying to define “a real man” any more than I was in the ramble I linked to in a comment above; and I am quite certain that he recognizes and values strength in women as well as in men. (I doubt we’ll see him again in this discussion since it has largely focused on tangents to his post, rather than its primary point.) In my reading of his post, I see an implicit recognition of the fact that it has largely been men who have been the innovators and inventors driving human advancement, at least according to our current “glorified gossip”—and if anyone reading this thinks that by making that statement I am automatically and necessarily some kind of sexist, please read this. From that context, The Shadow offers evidence of the emasculation of the Amerikan male. I understand his point to be that Amerikan men – as a group – have changed over the past 30–40 years in ways that are not conducive to human advancement (and yes, of course there are individual exceptions to that). Moreover, it is particularly harmful to the advancing of liberty. I don’t see any statement that explicitly – or even implicitly – suggests that women aren’t wanted, needed, or appreciated for their contributions to freedom, nor that a woman cannot be strong or assertive.

Has it really come to this? Is Amerikan society so overly sensitized to the political correctness infesting sex differences that no conversation focusing on one sex can escape being interpreted as a slam against the other sex — even on an individualist site?

When differences within a

When differences within a given sex vary more widely than differences between the average qualities of each sex, if we can even meaningfully define that, then I don't think it's a matter of oversensitivity or political correctness to point out this out.

Variation and central tendency

True enough. However, the amount of variation around some measure of central tendency doesn’t make that measure less informative in and of itself, particularly when what’s being discussed are population-level measures (viz., very large sample sizes). It just provides more context for understanding exactly what that mean or median (or whatever) is saying. Variability does not invalidate an average.

But ... I didn’t see your spot-on observation being asserted anywhere in previous comments.

Ah, the Shower...

Time taking a shower is some of my best thinking time, and I spent my entire shower thinking about this- do endeavors in support of Liberty require strong men?

The Shadow wrote: The government fears a nation of strong, free-thinking masculine men; liberty is not a characteristic of a Nice Guy Nation; how will men who live in fear of their own wives stand against the oppression of the state?

Well, counterintuitive though it may be, I actually know of at least one such man. He outwardly acknowledges that he has opened himself up to a lifetime of balls in a jar joke over the way he allowed his wife and, after they split, ex-wife to run roughshod over him. Yet he has a brilliant, quiet, simple way with words that allows him to boil down certain principles of liberty to just a sentence or two that he will quietly share from time to time. I've learned that when this person speaks, one's best course of action is to just shut up and hear what he has to say. He's not loud, he's not assertive, he's not what I'd call strong in most ways and certainly not in a stereotypically masculine way, but there he is making his contributions to promoting liberty. He's a good example that you don't need to fight for advocate or promote it.

Now, on another note, why is this a "guy" thing? If I am wrong and what really is required is strength, is this not also required of women? And if we are associating strength with masculinity, does that mean that we need women to become more masculine? If not, what is "women's place" in the freedom movement (assuming we want to lump people based on sex which does not make sense to me in this particular instance)?

I am not sure that this is

I am not sure that this is about a "guy" thing as much as it is about the socially accepted emascualtion of men's power.

I am probably not explaining this well, so bear with me.

I am attracted to strong women. Not in the sense that that they can bench press half their own weight and then go out and run a marathon, but in the sense of standing up for themselves. Because of the people I choose to hang out with, I run into a lot of them. Something that I am very thankful for as a red blooded hetrosexual male.

But there are some women who can only define their own power if it comes at the expense of someone else. Thus, they believe they can't be strong unless men around them are prevented from being strong. Using the force of law if necessary.

It starts early these days. Little boys aren't supposed to play cops and robbers. Pre-teenage males are being fed mood altering drugs to make them placid. And when those kids get to adulthood, the ways that they are supposed to express themselves is limited. The Shadow's original entry did a pretty good job of listing some examples.

I'm all for partnership between strong people. But I don't believe the true spirit of women's freedom is about subjecting men to tight control.

Although going by some of the statements of feminist leaders, it is certainly supposed to be.

A while back I did a review of Shelby Steele's _White_Guilt_ and how the assumptions he talks about influenced not only the Civil Rights Movement but set the stage for the whole power-from-victimhood thing that STILL shapes American society to this very day. If anyone is interested, here is the link.

http://www.paganvigil.com/C49491493/E20060708004835/index.html

Freedom: Ancient and Modern

It's true that the modern, particularly libertarian, conception of individual freedom is alien to Sparta and ancient Greece in general. However, ancient liberty was a collectivist concept involving the freedom of the group from foreign domination and in the more democratic societies included the privilege of participating directly in the group's political process. Invoking liberty in the name of resisting the Persians is not necessarily anachronistic. See Benjamin Constant's "The Liberty of Ancients Compared with that of Moderns."